“It is easy to go down into Hell; night and day, the gates of dark Death stand wide; but to climb back again, to retrace one’s steps to the upper air – there’s the rub, the task.”
Virgil
Finding your “Hell” is not the challenge; life is pain, and Hell is all around us.
Finding the mettle to overcome it, put it behind you, and be better for it is what separates the strong from the weak.